Listen to me, dammit!

Hmm, I had this problem long ago. That was when I'm unconsciously in need of caring and to be listened by others. And I did the same like you. Resulting a very bad output, I'm underestimated by others, I felt like the lowest wherever I went and I'm too aggresive when trying to be friendly with others.

Well, in short, I tried to understand myself, understanding my uniquness, and knowing why I'm unique than others. I'm sure you have certain uniqueness too, use them to make people like you! Everyone in the world is unique, so is you. There are things you couldn't do, but there are also things only you can do!

Try to listen them first, I'm sure there are lot people want to be listened. Maybe you should to become a good listener? Some of my friends are liked by others because in fact, they are willingly listening to other people's trouble.

I'm sure you could make good friend that way. At least that works for me.

Oh, count me as your friend if you don't mind.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Yeah, having something in common really helps in making new friends. Actually our position is a bit similar after all >_>.

I don't know anything about new movies that's coming around, I don't know about any of current hot music in MTV, my knowledge in sport is almost zero, I never could talk anything about sport between my male friends. But still, even though I'm lack of these, people still likes me, or at least they still would listen what I would talk about.

Originally Posted by Monkey King

"Unique" is not always an asset, when you really are unlike anybody else you meet. You have to have at least a few common points to get along with someone beyond the level of casual acquaintence, and even among hardcore nerds I'm markedly different.

I think you should start thinking to be unique is beautiful. If we keep labelling ourselves "different", we may unconsciously make a gap between ourselves and people, and I think you should avoid that.

Not to mention, I had been called 'sissy' in my entire life. That made me thinking I was the most abnormal person in the world... and felt inferior to anyone else :/ And it was really hard to me to put aside these "I'm different" doctrines when I confronted new friends.

But look, I actually could pass these tough times. I'm sure you could do it too.

There's nowhere I can't reach.