Question for the girls

Both Alice and Devo make good points.

This post by Devo makes sense to me:

Originally Posted by Devo

Why do people think going out isn't a way of getting to know someone?

You can simply do activities that would help you get to know them. I thought that was the point of "dating."

What the fuck is wrong with people?

Do people expect different things out of dates?

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by AliceNWondrland

OK, Smoodle. Look at it like this: You are actually able to pull off walking up to a completely unknown girl and getting her phone number without having any sort of conversation with her first. You two hit it off and you start dating. Wouldn't it always be in the back of your mind how easy it was for you to get her number? Doesn't anyone value a girl who is a little more discerning? It would worry me to think that I was going out with a girl who was so easily "procured".

I'd agree that at least an initial casual conversation goes a long way. As a guy, you should at least see how a girl carries herself before you go ahead and ask for a date/number -- no matter how physically attractive she is. At least know a little bit about her.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Reznor

No offense, but you're a dumb cunt.
How can I get to know you without talking to you?

You're the reason women get raped.

That's uncalled for.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.