Needing Some Counsel

Do you still have feelings for your ex?

From what i'm reading, if there's arguing, yelling, etc. in your previous relationship, this thing that happened on the site is a way for you to have closure with the guy. My suggestion is "if it ain't broke, don't fix". If he's happy with his relationship and you are with yours, then just move on.

I guess the only way you can ever tell if he is happy (without actually talking to him) is through those journals.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by SMX

My advice is useful if you indeed pathologically follow the path of “girl meets boy, girl gets bored, girl dumps guy, guy gets new girl, girl get jealous, girl manipulates guy back, guy accepts, girl gets bored again” Females who follow such a pattern typically lack the glue needed to make a mature relationship work, substance. So when some new guy comes around and excite emotions, they melt like butter.

Considering that you couldn’t even identify basic jealousy on your part, unless you’re like 16 or something, I don’t think my responds was uncalled for. Harsh maybe, but not uncalled for.

I personally don't think it's jealousy. Many people who once broke it off with someone who they've been with for a long time sometimes wonder what they're up to, just out of curiosity. A few of my friends do that too. Aise, what you're feeling and thinking is natural. Everyone thinks about their ex and wonders how they are going at some point.

Btw, I posted my reply and it was similar to what the others have said... where was my thank you?? lol j/k

How ya doing, buddy?