The 3rd Party in Cheating

I think she has to choose. She can't "have her cake and eat it too". Like the others have said, someone will end up getting hurt in this relationship. You'd be better off if she became a free agent, rather than sneaking around behind his back.

Do you know if she has cheated before? That would be another factor to consider. You could be the "right guy" for right now, but later on, she might end up cheating on you. That would not be a plesant feeling either, so don't do it to this guy.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by SMX

Besides Watcher, your post assumes that I want a relationship. I just want to fuck around, pretty much.... ...If some shit happens like me getting attached to her, I'll just next her and focus on other chicks, with ease.

Sorry for making that assumption. I have a friend who is sorta going through what you're going through. And she's after an older married man... Not to pass judgement, but I don't see the point messing with someone who is with someone (generally speaking, not referring to yours). If you're only after someone to fuck around with, find someone else that's not attached (as suggested by someone else).

Trust me, even if you think neither of you will end up getting attached to the "relationship", you're mistaken. Relationships tend to blossom in these situations.

There's nowhere I can't reach.