I found a girl - there is a god! Or not?

Dude, nothing's a bigger turn-off for me than a girl who's into co-dependancy and over-attachment. I went out with this chick about a year ago, and she kinda fit your description pretty well. A bit immature, always smilin', divorced parents, fucked-up family, the whole deal. Part Native American, though, no Asian blood (as though that's relevant). I hooked up with her about a month after she ditched this real head-case who was fuckin' her around six ways from Sunday. Real scum-sucker, this guy. Treated her like dirt. So I get to play the hero and rescue the damsel in distress, right? Sure, whatever.

She was an open book, man. 100% honesty right from day one. It was cool, at first. I mean, knowin' who you're gettin' involved with right from day one? Pretty sweet, right? I know better now. I was number... ten? Somethin' like that, and you better believe I knew every intimate detail of the previous nine. We were in love, or so I thought, so I put up with it. She was so whimsical and playful and happy most of the time, it was like datin' a fuckin' anime character, man!

Shit changed. I pieced together that she had a history of dating project guys and trying to change them into her model of the perfect male specimen. It also occurred to me that it wasn't honesty that made her tell me about all her exes, more like routine, like she was used to givin' her whole life story on a somewhat regular basis. She'd spend every minute with me, whether I wanted it or not. She'd get offended when I would rather write or practice keyboard or guitar than hang out with her. It's not like we didn't see eachother often, we fuckin' lived together (well, to be fair, that was a huge fuckin' mistake for a near-infinite number of reasons, but that's another story for another time). Co-dependancy up the yin-yang, bro, it wasn't pretty.

My advice? Just go with it, dude, and see where it takes you. Have fun and keep your mind in the present. You honestly barely know the girl, so just take your time and get to know her before you start thinking long-term.

Also, Ayos's post deserves a full read, because he's absolutely right and I couldn't have stated it better myself (athough I did try :P).

Jam it back in, in the dark.