TEHLINK

Member 1049

Level 33.00

Mar 2006

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Sep 25, 2006, 10:20 AM
Local time: Sep 25, 2006, 11:20 PM
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All the people who think she should ditch Chris are clowns. A child needs a father and she's only going to compound problems further by leaving him.
Things arn't going to improve at all unless Chris gets his shit togethor. Seriously he has to be the one to take responsibility. His family, his mates, they need to fucking get the message through to him. He has to be the one to grow up here. If he can pull himself togethor and just get a job and start organising life things will fall into place quicker than you think. He doesn't even have to give up drinking or smoking (though it would help.)
A father is someone who sorts out the shit for the family. If he fucks her and she leaves, no one wins. And it has to be Chris, because no other bloke is touching this girl now. It has to come from him first, only then will it rub off on your cousin.
Chris has the easy part, she's the one who has to raise this baby. All he needs to do is get a job, it can be minimun wage, and pay the bills. It's all they need to not live in squalor. And with him not around, making the house shit, maybe she might have a chance to clean it and take care of it.
I suggest you get in touch with his family somehow or his mates and get them to give him the message.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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