Love is friendship set on fire

I don’t think its the romance part of a relationship that makes maintaining friendship difficult or impossible. It’s the fact that what’s desired from the relationship – plutonic or romantic – is not even enough on both sides. This is what makes maintaining friendship hard. This only becomes an issue when disparity between both parties is large enough that one party can no longer deal with it. Or, when people are just too plan lazy to try. Regardless, the romantic part is the not the cause for making a post friendship hard. It just reveals an fundamental unbalance that was already there to begin with. Because of this, I personally think if you can’t maintain a friendship afterwards, then you probably weren’t much that good of ‘friends’ to begin with. Splitting ways would only be healthy.

Jam it back in, in the dark.