Needing Some Counsel

You sound like a typical female that got bored because your ex no longer made you emotional. If so, my advice to you would to grow up and and get some substance. Also, leave the guy alone, unless you want to start shit with people. Which wouldn't be very surprizing.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Aise

Butt out unless you're going to be useful, please.

My advice is useful if you indeed pathologically follow the path of “girl meets boy, girl gets bored, girl dumps guy, guy gets new girl, girl get jealous, girl manipulates guy back, guy accepts, girl gets bored again” Females who follow such a pattern typically lack the glue needed to make a mature relationship work, substance. So when some new guy comes around and excite emotions, they melt like butter.

Considering that you couldn’t even identify basic jealousy on your part, unless you’re like 16 or something, I don’t think my responds was uncalled for. Harsh maybe, but not uncalled for.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Watcher

I personally don't think it's jealousy. Many people who once broke it off with someone who they've been with for a long time sometimes wonder what they're up to, just out of curiosity. A few of my friends do that too. Aise, what you're feeling and thinking is natural. Everyone thinks about their ex and wonders how they are going at some point.

You see, the problem with your logic is that people don’t go on message boards saying things like:

Quote:

…I honestly did not expect it to hurt so bad to see them together. And happy. And her being a better girlfriend than I had been. I wonder if he is happy, and I wonder if he ever thinks of me.

…without jealousy being in the picture somewhere - especially when they are the ones that did the dumping. Now, of course this is a natural feeling. But, only young teens, or the ridiculously naive, don’t realize that this is a natural feeling and treat it like an actual problem - especially when they did the dumping.

What you’re describing is more like a “hey, I wonder how so-and-so is doing, let me call them” mentality. That’s obviously not happening here.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by PUG1911

(Sorry to sound like SMX).

Hey now, sounding like me is a good thing. Besides, someone had to tell her how stupid she was being.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

I say bullshit to that, because you started off attacking his happiness. If you want to just talk to the kid, then what the hell is stopping you from doing it?

I was speaking idiomatically.