What to do about being shy...

Talking is a great place to start, coming from one has always been an intervert. Find some type of common ground and build up from there. My wife liked video games and I absolutely loved playing them. She was able to beat a game in under 3 hours (DMC, Devil May Cry) and from there our friendship started (then relationship). You just need to find out where you both stand on something you both like/love to do and start working at the relationship.

Good luck to you!

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by gaming

Why didn't you say yes when she asked you if you were in love with her?

LOL I wanted to, but i was afraid she rejected me and our convo's would stop. But, it happened anyway. Now I think about it, I think it wouldn't have mattered if I said yes or no.

Originally Posted by valiant

Due to this, do not concern yourself over her. Sounds like she is too self conscious with a desired acknowledgment concerning awareness or such. I mean, that question was really direct and then her response of blocking you was rather immature...perhaps she could have added levity to the response with a "lol" or something...come on now, the PHONE is the more ideal means of communication.

DA PHONE?!? Oh hell no. I'd rather talk to somebody over MSN. I hate talking to somebody over the phone. Yes, it's more ideal for communication, but it's not my thing.

Originally Posted by Monkey King

Part of shyness is being afraid of doing something that you'll regret later

Yup, I do things and a few moments later I'm like: Shit. Shouldn't have done that.

About the girl I want to be friends with... It's going well. She's talking on MSN to me without any reason for it (The last 4 times where for printing something and sending some pictures to her). Let's hope this doesn't turn out like the other thingy I mentioned above with that other girl. I just keep going on and see what'll happen, I guess.

Originally Posted by Washyu64

You just need to find out where you both stand on something you both like/love to do and start working at the relationship.

Good luck to you!

Thanks! I've been asking that girl what music she likes and such. I like all sorts of music so I'm gonna have an easy one on the music part... Or not. VGM... I don't know what to about that.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Dude i know your young. but for real Uncertainty is not attractive, i know believe me i went threw the same thing. You have to take some form of control, You have to know yourself and know yourself good. And dude dont over pursue, like that Salva Trucha girl i was talkin bout earlier - I got her wanting to hang with me now, and the reason was i didnt call her everyday after i left the one message, and i waited. And im not acting like im overly pressed for u know what. I should be though she is a hot cinnamon colored mami, Que Caliente.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Hmmm...

In my point of view, I know myself well enough. I know what I want to study later and I know which people are my friends, what kind of person I am...

I just want to be less shy. Like Monkey King said: Part of shyness is being afraid of doing something that you'll regret later. I'm like that. *Sigh* Guess that'd be my main deal... If i just can get rid of that thought.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Shy! yeah, I used to terribly shy, but for some reason, I'm not sure what, I began to get over it. I think it was after I realized I had quite many talents, as such my confidence in my own ability to learn and so forth increased, and it affected my ability to socialize.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?