Aww damn... Get off me bitch!

So, in a relationship how do you feel about public displays of affection? Or are you so fucked up you don´t even like holding your other half at home in private? Aww, do you cuddle you little gay bastard? =O

Me, I´m a damned bear. I like to spoon my woman while watching a movie or going to sleep. When I used to work at UPS and was having a hard time going to sleep with four hours to go until work, my ex would spoon me and that usually helped me check out. Seemed ridiculous, a 105 pound woman spooning a then 270 pound man, but ah well.

As for in public, I don´t give a shit. I´ll do just about anything I can get away with... -_O

Jam it back in, in the dark.

I sincerely dislike public displays of affection. When I was single I loathed them, now I just think they're disgusting, tacky and unnecessary. If you're so horny you can't even stop dry-humping eachother for the 20 minutes you're on the bus, you are too freakin' horny.

Of course, some people get off on making out in public, but they're revolting freaks and do not deserve the right to vote, let alone voice their opinions. =D But at least their making out in public makes sense. What really annoys me is people who just cannot stop touching no matter what they're doing or where they are. Some of my friends are like that, and I insist that they leave their "loved ones" behind whenever we hang out. I don't want a free front-row ticket to a three-hour kissing session, I want to watch an anime and play some games.

At home, I'll do whatever I (and the girl, of course) want.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

I'm ok with holding hands and such in public, but I hate couples that are constantly all over each other and can't even walk at a normal pace because of how their bodies are entwined. I love spooning if we're just hanging out at home, though.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by christinajon

I'm ok with holding hands and such in public, but I hate couples that are constantly all over each other and can't even walk at a normal pace because of how their bodies are entwined. I love spooning if we're just hanging out at home, though.

Right. Holding hands is not what I would consider out of bounds. It's not like I'm against touching or showing love for eachother. But things like obscene dry-humping, sliding hands where they are not meant to dwell, or excavating eachother's pharynges, I don't appreciate that.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

I think public displays of affection are ok to an extent. I hold hands, hug and single kiss my boyfriend out in public. I leave the full on snogging, fondling, intimate kissing and what not to the prvate areas of my house and room.
I feel sick to my stomach when I see couples all over each other in the street grabbing body parts that shouldn't be grabbed in public. Ewwwwwwww

I was speaking idiomatically.

I am not one to sit and make out in public, there is just something creepy about it, but I do not have anything against a kiss or two in public or holding hands. Then there are those peeps who have sex in public places....should be shot...

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Holding hands and a kiss or two in public is fine. The only time i would make out in public is if we were alone at the beach, or other very rare times.

Also, there is a diffrence between a little making out and having sex with your clothes on. one is acceptable, the other is just fucking gross.

FELIPE NO

I agree with pretty much everyone else who has posted in this thread. I don't have a problem with holding hands or light kissing in public, but when I see two people straight up making out in public I find it more sad than anything else. "Disgust" isn't what I feel; it's pity that two people are so insecure in themselves and their relationship that they feel the need to prove to the world through feeling each other up in public that they really are in luuuuuuvvv. It's pathetic.

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

I was one of those people. When I did have a girlfriend, we'd make-out on anything that wasn't nailed down. Granted, this was yeeeears ago and I was just a teenager in heat.

Still, this reminds me of a time during my senior of high school when our school paper did a front-page story on P.D.A.'s. It displayed FUGLY people groping, dry-humping, and making out with each other all throughout our school. There have also been instances, like in a club for example, where folks are damn-near fucking each other in the middle of a crowd. I, for one, shouldn't have to worry about slipping on genetic filth everytime I leave the house. There certainly exists a line of digression when you're out in public, but a lot of folks choose not to pay it mind.

I think holding hands and light kisses are fine. Whispering sweet nothings is also acceptable, just something you'll rarely find in this day and age!

Jam it back in, in the dark.

It depends on where I am. I don't mind a couple kissing in the middle of the street/mall/whatever. I am against full on make-out sessions in the middle of the day along with any sort of groping.

There are just some things that aren't appropriate in any situation. Save it for the bedroom.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by AliceNWondrland

I agree with pretty much everyone else who has posted in this thread. I don't have a problem with holding hands or light kissing in public, but when I see two people straight up making out in public I find it more sad than anything else. "Disgust" isn't what I feel; it's pity that two people are so insecure in themselves and their relationship that they feel the need to prove to the world through feeling each other up in public that they really are in luuuuuuvvv. It's pathetic.

Who says that they are doing it to prove their love to anyone? I think it's kind of a shame that you see two people kissing each other and think it's pathetic. It's kind of sad that you've never had that type of passion in your life.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

If I really like a girl, and I mean I gotta be fucking IN LOVE, then I wont mind holding hands and whatever else. I'm generally pretty reserved as far as my feelings, and so when choosing a girl I try to get someone similar or at least not some teenage cliche prom queen from the mid west type of girl.

I show my true affection in private, and that doesnt necesarilly mean sex.

How ya doing, buddy?

I'd hold hands with my girl, or put an arm around her, and I'd consider that to be entirely acceptable. I'd also kiss her discreetly, and lightly, but if it's anything more than that, it would be just plain rude to the other people around us, and neither of us would be comfortable with it.

Even if it were a technically "public" place, and nobody was watching, there would still be a limit to what I'd think of as acceptable, and it would never include "dry humping". That shit is reserved when we're back in our homes, and I don't even understand how anyone could be comfortable going that far in public.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by CloudNine

Who says that they are doing it to prove their love to anyone? I think it's kind of a shame that you see two people kissing each other and think it's pathetic. It's kind of sad that you've never had that type of passion in your life.

There's a difference between passion and just being a teenager full of raging hormones.

Although, I do agree... just because some people express themselves that way publically, doesn't mean their necessarily trying to prove anything. Some people live in the moment, others think before they act. Depends on the person. But in general, you won't see many 30 somethings behaving in that manner.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Being able to touch my boyfriend while in public would be nice. In the same way that everyone here seems to support. Since that's generally frowned upon, everytime I see a straight couple together being even remotely affectionate with one another, it annoys me. Breeder oppression is sad. =(

Although, while on the metro I saw this girl with cute hair who was basically glued to what I presume to be her boyfriend. They were kissing, then she slid her hand underneath his sweater, and then beneath the waistband of his pants. That was so over the top I couldn't get angry about it. I tried, and then I burst out laughing. I couldn't stop. I laughed all the way to my metro stop. Meanwhile she removed her hand from beneath his pants, and just let it rest between his legs. It still makes me laugh.

FELIPE NO

I'm a very affectionate person. Now, I'm not talking about groping, but I'll cuddle my girl out in public. I'm a firm believer in the human need for physical contact. Its a means of communicating far beyond the levels of language, and without it I feel like less than a whole person.

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

Originally Posted by ElectricSheep

I'm a very affectionate person. Now, I'm not talking about groping, but I'll cuddle my girl out in public. I'm a firm believer in the human need for physical contact. Its a means of communicating far beyond the levels of language, and without it I feel like less than a whole person.

I'm a strong believer in this as well. I have no qualms with showing affection to my woman, unless it's a big makeout session or gropefest. The heavy stuff should be done in private.

I had a girlfriend once that would even refuse to hold hands in public. She was negative in general and that was that.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

I'm of the class of whatever. I'll do anything that I won't get arrested for. Guys and girls shouldn't be afraid to touch each other in public. We should enjoy each other's company and just be who we are.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Lucas-AMN

Guys and girls shouldn't be afraid to touch each other in public. We should enjoy each other's company and just be who we are.

I'm not afraid, I just think it's inconsiderate and pathetic. If that's who you are, then good for you.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Holding hands sure, afew light kisses here and there sure, but when you really want to get serious, you go somewhere private. It's kinda common sense.

I remember being at the mall with my girlfriend and a group of friends, in public we did none of that. Then she dragged me into a deserted home appliances/furniture store, took me behind a refrigerator, and we went at it.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Originally Posted by surasshu

I'm not afraid, I just think it's inconsiderate and pathetic. If that's who you are, then good for you.

Anyone here seen Snakes on a Plane? I definitely think that there is a line, if you don't have enough self-control to avoid manhandling your significant other, or you do and just dont care about other people in general, you suck, and need to get bitten by several poisonous snakes in the airplane bathroom.

I was speaking idiomatically.