Do these girls hate me or like me?
 

I've been to a couple parties lately and I always somehow end up talking 1 on 1 with a girl. For about 20-30 minutes. Then I usually need to go to the bathroom. I tell them I need to go and when I come back they're gone. Halfway into the party the girl will come back over next to me and sit. I won't say anything so eventually they do. I never hook up with them or anything, I'm terrible with that kind of stuff.



Why would a girl ditch me when I go pee to come back to me later?

is she shy or something?

What do you guys think?

They just move on because there's nothing to do while you're in the can. Even if I like a guy I'm not gonna hang around doing nothing and talking to nobody at a party just so he can pee. If they find you later on and continue your 1 on 1 then I don't see anything for you to complain about.

Going Lucky Charms on your ass. Look behind you before you dump, man.

Austin Powers knows all.

Helpful comment of the day: Fire knows too. Who knows how long you might be in there; they move on and enjoy the party.

If she sits down next to you even after you say something as embarassing as "I need to go pee," then it's easy for you to initiate the conversation, because she has already made the first move.

Girls do dumb things all the time and make it all too obvious, like stare at you until they burn a hole into face, stand close to you when there's plenty of room around, and tap your desk for no reason. Some of it is so dumb that you can't help but act like an asshole/cool-guy and pretend that you don't notice, but you will come to regret it.

If the girl came back to sit next to you again, you can assume that she's at least somewhat interested and wants to continue the conversation. On that note, there's not much to worry about, and you should use that opportunity to interact more. I've been in a similar situation, and if I was not interested in continuing the conversation with someone, I'd just find a way to leave politely.

because girls usually take the lame ass "i need to pee" line as a way of saying "can you stop annoying me."

if they come back after that, they're obviously desperate to get your attention, or give you a hint. guys ALWAYS need to make the first move, simply because girls are taught not to.

at least girls who were raised right.

You should just make her go in the bathroom with you. That way you won't have to worry about getting ditched AND you won't have to interrupt the conversation.

I'm sorry, but what the fuck is that supposed to mean? Women who actively seek out men weren't "raised right"? I've made the first move and women have approached me making a first move as well. Just because it is atypical doesn't mean it's a bad thing...

It means Zeal is an expert on women. Stand down, soldier.

if they stay for more than 10 minutes, they are interested. if you don't advance... then they will seek elsewhere cause you have no balls which is why they ditch you after a half hour.

im assuming you're in your teens or 20s and nobody in that age range wants to have causal conversation during a damn party. they either want to hit or miss. apparently you've hit... but you just dont know how to keep it going.

be flirty, and move in.

As you're walking away you should turn around pointing at her and say "Stay."

Before you leave, you should get her phone number. It sounds like you were doing fairly well, so asking her for the digits will be another clue as to whether she is interested or not.

You don't have to spend the whole night with the girl. Unless you just want to bang her.

Try not to think negatively, bud. There could be many reasons...one of them being that she might have gone to use the bathroom too when you went. Then one of her friends grabbed her and started talking to her and her friend was totally taking her time away.
Then she realized she talked to a great guy (which is you) and she start searching for you through this massive crowd of people just blocking her way, and perhaps her view.
After spotting you, she wants to reunite with you to end the great conversations you guys were having.
There could be many possibilities, try not to go to the negative thought right off the bat.:erm:

Christ, you sound like Lizeris.