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The_Griffin Mar 26, 2008 09:56 PM

Brain-damaged woman sued by Wal-Mart
 
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Originally Posted by http://www.cnn.com/2008/US/03/25/walmart.insurance.battle/index.html?iref=newssearch
JACKSON, Missouri (CNN) -- Debbie Shank breaks down in tears every time she's told that her 18-year-old son, Jeremy, was killed in Iraq.


The 52-year-old mother of three attended her son's funeral, but she continues to ask how he's doing. When her family reminds her that he's dead, she weeps as if hearing the news for the first time.
Shank suffered severe brain damage after a traffic accident nearly eight years ago that robbed her of much of her short-term memory and left her in a wheelchair and living in a nursing home.
It was the beginning of a series of battles -- both personal and legal -- that loomed for Shank and her family. One of their biggest was with Wal-Mart's health plan.

Eight years ago, Shank was stocking shelves for the retail giant and signed up for Wal-Mart's health and benefits plan.
Two years after the accident, Shank and her husband, Jim, were awarded about $1 million in a lawsuit against the trucking company involved in the crash. After legal fees were paid, $417,000 was placed in a trust to pay for Debbie Shank's long-term care.
Wal-Mart had paid out about $470,000 for Shank's medical expenses and later sued for the same amount. However, the court ruled it can only recoup what is left in the family's trust.
The Shanks didn't notice in the fine print of Wal-Mart's health plan policy that the company has the right to recoup medical expenses if an employee collects damages in a lawsuit.
The family's attorney, Maurice Graham, said he informed Wal-Mart about the settlement and believed the Shanks would be allowed to keep the money.
"We assumed after three years, they [Wal-Mart] had made a decision to let Debbie Shank use this money for what it was intended to," Graham said.

The Shanks lost their suit to Wal-Mart. Last summer, the couple appealed the ruling -- but also lost it. One week later, their son was killed in Iraq.

"They are quite within their rights. But I just wonder if they need it that bad," Jim Shank said.
In 2007, the retail giant reported net sales in the third quarter of $90 billion.
Legal or not, CNN asked Wal-Mart why the company pursued the money.
Wal-Mart spokesman John Simley, who called Debbie Shank's case "unbelievably sad," replied in a statement: "Wal-Mart's plan is bound by very specific rules. ... We wish it could be more flexible in Mrs. Shank's case since her circumstances are clearly extraordinary, but this is done out of fairness to all associates who contribute to, and benefit from, the plan."
Jim Shank said he believes Wal-Mart should make an exception.
"My idea of a win-win is -- you keep the paperwork that says you won and let us keep the money so I can take care of my wife," he said.
The family's situation is so dire that last year Jim Shank divorced Debbie, so she could receive more money from Medicaid.
Jim Shank, 54, is recovering from prostate cancer, works two jobs and struggles to pay the bills. He's afraid he won't be able to send their youngest son to college and pay for his and Debbie's care.
"Who needs the money more? A disabled lady in a wheelchair with no future, whatsoever, or does Wal-Mart need $90 billion, plus $200,000?" he asked.
The family's attorney agrees.
"The recovery that Debbie Shank made was recovery for future lost earnings, for her pain and suffering," Graham said.
"She'll never be able to work again. Never have a relationship with her husband or children again. The damage she recovered was for much more than just medical expenses."
Graham said he believes Wal-Mart should be entitled to only about $100,000. Right now, about $277,000 remains in the trust -- far short of the $470,000 Wal-Mart wants back.
Refusing to give up the fight, the Shanks appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court. But just last week, the high court said it would not hear the case.
Graham said the Shanks have exhausted all their resources and there's nothing more they can do but go on with their lives.
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Jim Shank said he's disappointed with the Supreme Court's decision not to hear the case -- not for the sake of his family -- but for those who might face similar circumstances.
For now, he said the family will figure out a way to get by and "do the best we can for Debbie."

"Luckily, she's oblivious to everything," he said. "We don't tell her
what's going on because it will just upset her."

This is why I don't shop at that shithole. Hooray for Wal-Mart, scum of the earth!

Seriously, they fucking sue her for more than she WON after legal fees?

Leknaat Mar 26, 2008 10:01 PM

"We're being fair to the associates." Right, ask the other associates what they think of this.

This should be the exception that MAKES the rule.

Chaotic Mar 26, 2008 10:08 PM

Funny, I just read and watched this at another message board I go to just about 5 minutes ago...

Anyway, here's a video regarding that report: Brain-damaged woman at center of Wal-Mart suit - CNN.com

I could only imagine if Wal-Mart was responsible for death. I wonder what they'd do then.

Philia Mar 26, 2008 10:23 PM

I don't understand. Wal-mart paid her medical expenses, that's like if the truck accident was worker's comp? I assumed it was a separate health plan (Blue Shield and etc) that paid it. But good god, 470,000 medical expenses? That must be some accident.

I didn't know Wal-mart has it OWN health plan. Or am I missing something here?

nanashiusako Mar 26, 2008 10:48 PM

wal-mart is seriously messed up. they don't care whether she lives or dies. maybe i should stop shopping there....

Free.User Mar 26, 2008 10:50 PM

Yeah, this is the sort of thing I hate Wal-Mart for. I don't boycott the place, but I avoid it as much possible.

Jurassic Park Chocolate Raptor Mar 26, 2008 10:53 PM

"Company pursues legal rights and abides by contract!"

GOD DAMN EVIL BASTARDS HOW DARE THEY ARGARGALGREALHGALKDSGAJSLFASF. I AM NEVER SHOPPING THERE AGAIN*.

You people.

*After the next time I go there, I swear I'll never go there again! You guys believe me, right?

dagget Mar 26, 2008 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Leknaat (Post 588271)
"We're being fair to the associates." Right, ask the other associates what they think of this.

This should be the exception that MAKES the rule.

Lawl-mart ihas never been fair to their employees. Every single person I worked with during my slave time with them, all hated it, but couldn't get a job anywhere else, so were stuck with it.

Won't even get into their work ethics and the amount of kiss-ass you have to endure/supply to get anywhere, but this shit takes the cake and is probably going to be the nail for me to never ever work for them again. (Well, I shouldn't say NEVER, but it's definately going to be a last resort option.)

I feel real bad for the lady in this situation with them though. Wal-mart has enough damn money and I could see if the accident was wal-mart related where they could try to recover "damages" they paid out to help the person recover, but this wasn't even a wal-mart related injury, was it? Yeaaaa. I can almost bet if this accident happened while she was working, then they would try to prolong paying anything out and having all sorts of investigations going on to NOT pay her the money. I know that this is the case from not only having to deal with sexual harassment and being called a liar and that I "misunderstood" everything said to me and that it "didn't need to go to court" from when my mother fell down and just about shattered her ankle at wal-mart due to negligence from their employees not keeping clean floors.

This shit here just pisses me off even more. I agree with her husband, they on't need the money. All they're doing is robbing someone who needs it and the money had NOTHING to do with Wal-mart at all. I can imagine Sam Walton is just spinning in his grave about all this shit.

The_Griffin Mar 26, 2008 11:21 PM

Skills, are you talking to me? Because I haven't bought a damn thing there in well over 5-6 years. And what's outrageous (aside from this provision existing in the first place) is that they're asking for more money than the lady wound up walking away with--money that is going straight into medical care for her.

Free.User Mar 26, 2008 11:28 PM

Skills, come on. Even if it's completely in the company's rights to do what it is they're doing, it doesn't change the fact that they are heartless.

Jurassic Park Chocolate Raptor Mar 26, 2008 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by The_Griffin (Post 588296)
Skills, are you talking to me? Because I haven't bought a damn thing there in well over 5-6 years. And what's outrageous (aside from this provision existing in the first place) is that they're asking for more money than the lady wound up walking away with--money that is going straight into medical care for her.

I'm not refering to anyone in particular, just the general semblance of "holy fuck I'm not going there again after hearing this news" that's in this thread.

What the company was asking for is within their legal rights to do so, however, and I think the overall negative reaction to the enforcement of a bloody contract, no matter how unfortunate it is for the family involved, is silly and hyperbolic. It's not like they're breaking the law, here.

I poked it and it made a sad sound Mar 26, 2008 11:54 PM

I guess the devil is in the details.

While it's an upsetting story, I'm going to have to go with Skills on this one.

Knowing how Walmart tends to treat its employees, this should come as no surprise from anyone here, or elsewhere. They're infamous for "fine print" clauses, and anyone who considers signing a paper with Walmart really, really really ought to read everything thoroughly.

Like Skills said, Walmart is legally under no obligation to let the family have their money.

Don't act like Walmart is the only major corporation to fuck people over. You guys with you "I AM NEVER SHOPPING AT WALMART AGAIN" are in for a rude awakening: many, many, many corporations give people the shaft.

They're not out to lose money - they're in it to make money. They're not expected to be the moral pinnacles of society.

Yes, it's a sad story. I recognize that. But really.

Apart from the whole "F U WALMART" shit, why would the family constantly REMIND her that her son is dead?? Seriously, she's braindead. Why cause her more pain - EVERY DAY - telling her that her son is dead when she has pretty much no short term memory? That's AWFULLY cruel if you ask me. You know those situations where white lies are permissible? I think this is the perfect time for that.

Bigblah Mar 26, 2008 11:56 PM

Need I remind you, Skills, that morality and legality are not the same? Nobody's debating the legal process here. But saying "shit sucks, get on with your life" isn't a whole lot better than the LOL BOYCOTT reaction. What will probably ensue from this publicity is the possibility of the family getting volunteer donations, and that's a good thing.

Jurassic Park Chocolate Raptor Mar 27, 2008 12:41 AM

I don't think I ever said they were, actually. I certainly wasn't saying "You're SOL, get on with it" either, I was just thinking it was silly to run around with a boycott threat because of a situation which is pretty much unsurprising as fuck considering the corporate entity we're dealing with here.

The morality/legality link is pretty strong in this case, though. You either do the right moral thing and the wrong legal thing, or the wrong moral thing and the right legal thing. Doesn't seem to be a win win, really. Shame there is no real way to seperate it. Even if that's what I tried to do, that's what people are focusing on. =\

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[03/27/08 - 00:37:39] <+Bigblah> make sure you insult me somehow
You smell like pickles. >=(

Bigblah Mar 27, 2008 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Colonel Spreadsheet (Post 588315)
You smell like pickles. >=(

Well, I hope one day you get brain-damaged in an accident while washing a pair of pants and Wal-Mart sues you for the compensation money AND the pants.

Crash "Long-Winded Wrong Answer" Landon Mar 27, 2008 12:50 AM

As callous as it may sound, I can understand Wal-Mart's position. Foremost, they're abiding by the legal terms of their insurance contract. It's an entitlement that they're allowed to pursue. Their existence isn't as a charity organization; it's unrealistic to expect them to serve as one.

But more importantly, I can see how the corporation is trying to prevent itself from being wedged into setting a precedent, one that could be milked by others. It might be the morally correct act to absolve the Shank's debt but is it fiscally responsible in the long-term? The answer is a crystal clear "no."

See, if the Shanks are given favor, it will open the next similar case up for a similar claim, citing the Shank's case as precedent. Should Wal-Mart decline to absolve that debt, unlike the Shank's, they'd be setting themselves up for a lawsuit, likely one claiming "preferential treatment." If the plaintiff is a member of a minority, it could easily become a race or gender issue. This is only more bad publicity, not to mention the associated legal fees, unrecouped medical expenses, and settlements for nebulous claims of "defamation", "anguish" and "suffering."

You have to see it in the long-term. Today's charity is tomorrow's day-to-day expectation. Where does this money come from? Paying out to exorbitant medical claims, legal fees and damage control only drives prices up in compensation. This is a horrible business strategy and Wal-Mart is intelligent enough to avoid setting foot down that path.

Yes, I sympathize with the Shanks. I sympathize greatly. No amount of money can negate the damage. But this is a matter of black and white print, not what is morally just. Even as a judge, I couldn't, in good conscience, rule against Wal-Mart here.

(However, an equitable solution, one that is practically disingenious, is for Wal-Mart to officially collect the due total from the Shanks - who do have the money. Then, Wal-Mart could cut the Shanks a check for an equal sum and present it as a charitable gift. This satisfies the terms of the insurance contract, warding off precedent. Yet it also provides a happy ending for the Shank family, and significantly saves Wal-Mart's reputation. Additionally, the money could be used as a charitable deduction on Wal-Mart's taxes and the two figures would approximately cancel each other out. Everybody wins!)

Jurassic Park Chocolate Raptor Mar 27, 2008 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Bigblah (Post 588317)
Well, I hope one day you get brain-damaged in an accident while washing a pair of pants and Wal-Mart sues you for the compensation money AND the pants.

That'll only happen if I'm unfortunate enough to have bought the pants at Wal-mart in the first place.

I'm observant enough to note that the tag says "in case of accident while cleansing these pantaloons, Wal-mart reserves the right to recall this article of clothing and take your wallet."

DarkMageOzzie Mar 27, 2008 01:14 AM

Considering the amount of things Walmart does that are actually illegal, this should surprise no one. I have various reason I never shop there, including the fact that I don't have any perticularly close to here. The only things I've ever bought at Walmart was City of Heroes: Good vs Evil Edition when it was a Walmart exclusive and a Wii.

Crash "Long-Winded Wrong Answer" Landon Mar 27, 2008 01:38 AM

You know, I don't quite understand this knee-jerk tendency to boycott Wal-Mart whenever they get bad press. I follow the reasons one would boycott a corporation in general, but Wal-Mart certainly seems to get the brunt of it. It's hardly proportionate. Verizon, McDonald's, Texaco, United Airlines - they've all done some shitty things in the past but they've escaped a lot of their aggressors. Not Wal-Mart, though. They fire a single mother over a possible false positive on a drug test and suddenly idiots come crawling out of the woodwork. ARGH WE WILL NEVER BUY CULOTTES FROM YOU AGAIN! People who have no connection to the issue at all are up in arms. If you were a single mother, or a druggie, I could understand some indignance, but cripes. If your only purpose in visiting Wal-Mart is videogames and Little Debbie cakes, what the fuck do you care?

Yeah, Wal-Mart does some shitty things. I still shop there because I require objects now and then and do not want to pay more than is truly necessary for, say, Listerine. I don't particularly care for Exxon's business practices but dang if I still don't need gasoline every few weeks. Practicality outweighs principle, sometimes.

Folks, if you're going to draw a line somewhere, don't do it over your own throats.

Vemp Mar 27, 2008 02:13 AM

This proves that Capitalist Companies drain the money out of the free people!! LET US JOIN HANDS AND ENTER THE REVOLUTION!

CryHavoc Mar 27, 2008 02:52 AM

You know i was just gonna suggest the same thing Crash suggested, i think that's the sound choice , because a kind act here might secure them a lot of sympathy and well let's face it, people are gonna shop there more 'cuz they feel "warmer" to them.

The real question here is, can anyone actually convince them of doing that? As i think their lawyers must have suggested something similar.

Sarag Mar 27, 2008 08:34 AM

I already never shop at Wal-Mart so~

it's still a major-league bummer that they won't let this one go. I'm not saying they should be obliged to because that's something that only an expert in contract law and medical plans should say, but it's still a seriously douchebag move.

Furthermore I'm seconding the guy who said that the publicity should attract personal donators to the poor lady's cause. I wonder, though, if Wal-Mart will feel obliged to that money as well?

shit sux

RABicle Mar 27, 2008 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Colonel Spreadsheet (Post 588286)
"Company pursues legal rights and abides by contract!"

GOD DAMN EVIL BASTARDS HOW DARE THEY ARGARGALGREALHGALKDSGAJSLFASF. I AM NEVER SHOPPING THERE AGAIN*.

You people.

*After the next time I go there, I swear I'll never go there again! You guys believe me, right?

Fuck your cynicism. This shit is polluting society.

Bradylama Mar 27, 2008 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Leknaat (Post 588271)
"We're being fair to the associates." Right, ask the other associates what they think of this.

This should be the exception that MAKES the rule.

Wal-Mart's plan is supposed to be a stop-gap for their employees which can't afford their own medical, which is why they're seeking to recoup losses in the case of an applicant winning suit.

She can still cover her expenses even after the case (assuming legal fees did not run them dry), it just looks really bad because she's mentally stunted and her son just died in Iraq.

If I was Wal-Mart I would not attempt to be flexible no matter how bad this case may be, because it gives a lot of other people room to try and wiggle out of contract with their sob stories.

This is really bad, and it sucks for the Shanks, but I have to side with Wal-Mart.

Misogynyst Gynecologist Mar 27, 2008 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Free.User (Post 588298)
Skills, come on. Even if it's completely in the company's rights to do what it is their doing, it doesn't change the fact that they are heartless.

Complaining about a heartless company abiding by a contract? Just how stupid are you?

I take it you were one of those people who were horrified about those pictures of American soldiers sexually abusing muslim prisoners a few years ago. "Hey, I pay soldiers to murder people, not sexually harass them!"

Radez Mar 27, 2008 10:44 AM

You're talking about Wal-Mart like it's a single person making the decision. Look at it this way, you really want to be the one exec that recommends to all the shareholders that you give away 200k of their money just to be nice?

Say goodbye to your job. Say goodbye to your career. Say hello to a nice big lawsuit because you, as a director or officer, are personally liable for mismanagement of the company.

Bradylama Mar 27, 2008 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by LeHah (Post 588417)
Complaining about a heartless company abiding by a contract? Just how stupid are you?

I take it you were one of those people who were horrified about those pictures of American soldiers sexually abusing muslim prisoners a few years ago. "Hey, I pay soldiers to murder people, not sexually harass them!"

A sound moral equivalency if I ever saw one. :rolleyes:

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You're talking about Wal-Mart like it's a single person making the decision.
Oh but remember, as a corporation they have personhood.

Misogynyst Gynecologist Mar 27, 2008 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Bradylama (Post 588442)
A sound moral equivalency if I ever saw one.

The day anyone looks for you for a moral standing is hopefully the day they reply to your advice with a gun in their mouth.

(Obama supporter. Fucking JOKE.)

I poked it and it made a sad sound Mar 27, 2008 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Bradylama (Post 588442)
Oh but remember, as a corporation they have personhood.

If you consider a valid person having a board in their head, determining things for them.

I think those sorts are called "schizophrenics."

Aardark Mar 27, 2008 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by LeHah (Post 588417)
I take it you were one of those people who were horrified about those pictures of American soldiers sexually abusing muslim prisoners a few years ago. "Hey, I pay soldiers to murder people, not sexually harass them!"

I'm not sure what pictures you're talking about, but are you saying that abuse of prisoners is okay? And what on earth does that have to do with this case anyway?

Leknaat Mar 27, 2008 02:09 PM

Am I the only one who noticed that Wal-Mart waited three years before suing them? They were notified by the attorney about the decision, and didn't take immediate action. Isn't there a statute of limitations on something like that?

DarkMageOzzie Mar 27, 2008 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Crash Landon (Post 588331)
You know, I don't quite understand this knee-jerk tendency to boycott Wal-Mart whenever they get bad press. I follow the reasons one would boycott a corporation in general, but Wal-Mart certainly seems to get the brunt of it. It's hardly proportionate. Verizon, McDonald's, Texaco, United Airlines - they've all done some shitty things in the past but they've escaped a lot of their aggressors. Not Wal-Mart, though. They fire a single mother over a possible false positive on a drug test and suddenly idiots come crawling out of the woodwork. ARGH WE WILL NEVER BUY CULOTTES FROM YOU AGAIN! People who have no connection to the issue at all are up in arms. If you were a single mother, or a druggie, I could understand some indignance, but cripes. If your only purpose in visiting Wal-Mart is videogames and Little Debbie cakes, what the fuck do you care?

Yeah, Wal-Mart does some shitty things. I still shop there because I require objects now and then and do not want to pay more than is truly necessary for, say, Listerine. I don't particularly care for Exxon's business practices but dang if I still don't need gasoline every few weeks. Practicality outweighs principle, sometimes.

Folks, if you're going to draw a line somewhere, don't do it over your own throats.

You talk like situations like this are the only reason that people avoid Wal-Mart. From what I understand most people avoid Wal-Mart because they see it as a threat to their community. Since Wal-Mart has a reputation of putting smaller businesses out of business. Which in turn causes people to be unemployed with going to work at the place that cost them their job as basicly their only option. Then they get paid less and get treated poorly.

Situations like this is more throwing salt on the wounds then anything else for people who already hate Wal-Mart.

Paco Mar 27, 2008 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by DarkMageOzzie (Post 588491)
You talk like situations like this are the only reason that people avoid Wal-Mart.

No. He talks like this because of responses like:

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Originally Posted by nanashiusako (Post 588283)
wal-mart is seriously messed up. they don't care whether she lives or dies. maybe i should stop shopping there....

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Originally Posted by Free.User (Post 588284)
Yeah, this is the sort of thing I hate Wal-Mart for.

I think it's been said several times in this thread already but, hey, Wal-Mart is not the only corporation to act in, what a lot of us would otherwise perceive to be, morally devoid actions in order to protect their interests. Why are we all surprised about this?

Smelnick Mar 27, 2008 02:39 PM

I'm really glad that Walmart was able to protect their interests in this case. If the contract said that they get their money back if a settlement is made, then by golly, they should get their money back. I mean, if a poor man was suing the Shank's for that same money because of a contract they had with him, but they weren't giving it to him, would you still side with the Shanks?

If walmart goes under, where will I get my Little Debbie cakes?

Misogynyst Gynecologist Mar 27, 2008 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588485)
I'm not sure what pictures you're talking about, but are you saying that abuse of prisoners is okay?

Of course I am.

If you're expecting to find humanity in war, you need to come to your senses.

If you're giving a shit about people that you'll never meet who live on the other side of the world doing things that do not directly affect you, you need to rethink your life.

What it has to do with this case is that its the same stupid reaction. Someone is offended that a company sticks to its contract? How dare they! Someone strips a prisoner of war and sexually molests them instead of shooting them in the face? How awful they are!

Bigblah Mar 27, 2008 03:16 PM

Yeah and we should also euthanize brain damaged people because they're a drain on our resources, I mean nobody really gives a shit about them anyway

Aardark Mar 27, 2008 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by LeHah (Post 588500)
Of course I am.

If you're expecting to find humanity in war, you need to come to your senses.

If you're giving a shit about people that you'll never meet who live on the other side of the world doing things that do not directly affect you, you need to rethink your life.

What it has to do with this case is that its the same stupid reaction. Someone is offended that a company sticks to its contract? How dare they! Someone strips a prisoner of war and sexually molests them instead of shooting them in the face? How awful they are!

Yes, they are awful, and the cases are absolutely not the same. In this case, what Wal-Mart did was morally shitty, but within their legal rights. Unlike torture of prisoners of war. The treatment of POWs is covered by international treaties, and I'm pretty sure they don't say that prisoner rape is ok. I mean, what. I need to 'rethink my life' if I care about something I perceive as injustice? See no evil, hear no evil? Do you actually believe what you're saying, or are you just trying to earn cynical hardass points?

What's your opinion on the Nanking Massacre?

Put Balls Mar 27, 2008 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Bigblah (Post 588507)
Yeah and we should also euthanize brain damaged people because they're a drain on our resources, I mean nobody really gives a shit about them anyway

Yeah, she's braindead, what would she have done with the money anyway, bought season boxes of Family Guy?

Sarag Mar 27, 2008 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Bigblah (Post 588507)
Yeah and we should also euthanize brain damaged people because they're a drain on our resources, I mean nobody really gives a shit about them anyway

http://www.oilempire.us/graphics/soylent-green.jpg

Bigblah Mar 27, 2008 03:28 PM

Just stop posting because nobody actually cares about your opinion and you're just wasting your time

Everyone on the internet is probably laughing at you too

Ronz Mar 27, 2008 03:30 PM

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Misogynyst Gynecologist Mar 27, 2008 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Bigblah (Post 588507)
Yeah and we should also euthanize brain damaged people because they're a drain on our resources, I mean nobody really gives a shit about them anyway

I certainly don't.

I mean - what does a brain damaged person give back to society?

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588508)
The treatment of POWs is covered by international treaties, and I'm pretty sure they don't say that prisoner rape is ok.

Yes, yes, yes thats all nice. Meanwhile, things like Attica happen and now prisoners have all these needless rights to cable television and therapy - but no one does anything about prison rape, do they?


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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588508)
I need to 'rethink my life' if I care about something I perceive as injustice?

The important word in that sentence is "perceive".

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588508)
What's your opinion on the Nanking Massacre?

Using this is a cheap ploy - like that stupid rape question given to Michael Dukakis. Obviously, you aren't bothered by the Rape Of Nanking if you so easily cite it; its a stone's throw from Goodwin's Law.

Do I think it was terrible? Sure. Do I give a shit about it? Not especially. I mean, how many countless millions were killed, burned, maimed and raped through the Crusades. I don't care about that either - and anyone here who says they do is lying. The only difference between Nanking and the Crusades is the number of people dead and the time involved.

Burroughs once said something to the effect of "We now live in a nation where we are not allowed to mind our own business". We're seen as callous or bitter people if we don't care about some plight on the other side of the world or people starving or mass murder. Yeah, that shit is terrible - but I don't see the news media anchors giving up their salary to help starving people in Africa and I don't see people on GFF sending donations to needy families.

The difference here is that I don't put on airs to any of that. I don't give a shit about people I don't know. Why? Because this world would be a hell of a lot better off if we cared about people we knew instead of pretending to care about people we don't.

Misogynyst Gynecologist Mar 27, 2008 04:43 PM

What I'm saying is that if people here are so moved by these terrible things - go join the Peace Corps and actually do something about these horrors. Otherwise, you're just a joke.

Aardark Mar 27, 2008 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by LeHah
Do I think it was terrible? Sure. Do I give a shit about it? Not especially.

What exactly is the difference between thinking that something is terrible and giving a shit about it?

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Originally Posted by LeHah (Post 588528)
The difference here is that I don't put on airs to any of that. I don't give a shit about people I don't know. Why? Because this world would be a hell of a lot better off if we cared about people we knew instead of pretending to care about people we don't.

Don't act like you're better than everyone. The world would be better if people actually went out and did something about things, instead of complaining about them on the internet; I see the point and agree with it. Regardless, does that mean all message boards on the internet should be closed down? Do you also think there's no point in discussing politics if you aren't actively involved in a party?

How Unfortunate Mar 27, 2008 09:05 PM

Not to sound heartless, but I think the real fault is in the original lawsuit. If her condition cost $470k to treat, then they should have been able to sue - successfully - for $470k, PLUS some additional amount to cover Debbie's living expenses in the future, pain and suffering, etc. etc. How can you win less than the "reasonal treatment cost"?

Interesting "tactic" divorcing the wife so she can claim extra aid, there.

Misogynyst Gynecologist Mar 27, 2008 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588544)
What exactly is the difference between thinking that something is terrible and giving a shit about it?

Thinking can be a passing thought, giving a shit about it means you actually care and plant a flag of opinion on the subject.

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588544)
Don't act like you're better than everyone.

As anyone can tell you from the last two meets - I'm not acting. I am most assuredly better than the majority of everyone you have ever met.

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588544)
Regardless, does that mean all message boards on the internet should be closed down?

It would most certainly lower the stupidity quotient. No more MySpace, no more memes, no more Political Palace. These things make people think together instead of thinking for themselves.

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588544)
Do you also think there's no point in discussing politics if you aren't actively involved in a party?

I believe the proof is in the pudding. If you have a political slant, go out and soapbox it and do something with your ideas. I have no respect for armchair warriors and people who sit there dreaming about things. Complaining about an administration doesn't do shit, protesting doesn't do shit, writing songs and "raising awareness" doesn't do shit. These are things people do to make them feel like they're involved without actually doing anything.

Bigblah Mar 27, 2008 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by LeHah (Post 588528)
I mean - what does a brain damaged person give back to society?

I dunno, maybe they can stock shelves in Wal-Mart.... ?


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Originally Posted by LeHah (Post 588528)
The difference here is that I don't put on airs to any of that. I don't give a shit about people I don't know. Why? Because this world would be a hell of a lot better off if we cared about people we knew instead of pretending to care about people we don't.

Oh yeah, now you're being all "real", huh? People can comment on concepts as they see fit. I certainly don't give a shit about you*, but I can damn well post about how you're a douchebag because you're trying to one-up everyone on e-cynicism. Or rather, instead of just condemning people for their opinion, you've assumed a lofty position from which you can condemn people for the very act of offering an opinion.

It's like going into a filesharing forum and telling them that filesharing is bad, and acting like some internet hero because you've reported someone to the RIAA.

*in the sense that I wouldn't be donning a black avatar to mourn an untimely demise

BlueMikey Mar 27, 2008 09:21 PM

Of all the things to hate Wal-Mart for, collecting on a half-million, interest-free loan (which they would never have to repay unless they actually had that money) so that she could pay her medical bills is pretty low on the list.

Misogynyst Gynecologist Mar 27, 2008 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Bigblah (Post 588601)
Oh yeah, now you're being all "real", huh? People can comment on concepts as they see fit. I certainly don't give a shit about you*, but I can damn well post about how you're a douchebag because you're trying to one-up everyone on e-cynicism. Or rather, instead of just condemning people for their opinion, you've assumed a lofty position from which you can condemn people for the very act of offering an opinion.

It's like going into a filesharing forum and telling them that filesharing is bad, and acting like some internet hero because you've reported someone to the RIAA.

"Its like"? It is.

The opinion is the single element of a person which *should* be attacked. Unlike any other trait, they're something you choose to have -- and they can be horribly wrong. My opinion is that fish can breathe oil! My opinion is that housecats should be crushed by pyramids! My opinion is that Star Wars is real! Those are bad, bad opinions -- and they should certainly be called stupid.

(Similarly, you must have a very low self esteem to complain with a straight face that you feel excluded because someone is smarter than you are. Buck up, pal.)

Bigblah Mar 27, 2008 10:12 PM

Re-read my post, I'm all for calling bad opinions stupid. But I'm against limiting the admissibility of opinions based on degree of connection, which you're doing a lot of since it gives you more targets.

Now try again.

Misogynyst Gynecologist Mar 27, 2008 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Bigblah (Post 588619)
I'm against limiting the admissibility of opinions based on degree of connection, which you're doing a lot of since it gives you more targets.

I get that my broadening the playing field puts you at a disadvantage as I've own gone out of my way to point out that people are more likely stupid than smart - but asking me to limit the scope doesn't change what is there already. You obviously agree with me that people are commonly stupid - otherwise, you'd be disagreeing with what I'm saying and not the scope of what I'm saying.

(Is this a "we agree to disagree" on the idea of amount, and then agree on the basics? Or...)

Bigblah Mar 27, 2008 10:58 PM

No, I'm talking about this whole spiel about "armchair critics". You can basically go into every argument and apply a similar line of reasoning -- and spin it in whatever possible way to give it validity -- but it doesn't contribute a damned thing to the discussion, which means it's irrelevant and disruptive.

Pirate Mar 27, 2008 11:43 PM

Always... always read the fine print.

Aardark Mar 28, 2008 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted by LeHah (Post 588600)
Thinking can be a passing thought, giving a shit about it means you actually care and plant a flag of opinion on the subject.

Haha, what? What's a 'flag of opinion'? How do you 'plant' it? Does it entail making a post on an internet message board?

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It would most certainly lower the stupidity quotient. No more MySpace, no more memes, no more Political Palace. These things make people think together instead of thinking for themselves.
And what's a 'stupidity quotient'? How do you measure that? Don't make shit up. Stopping discussion on the internet would most certainly increase overall intelligence is a pretty bold statement to make, do you perhaps have something to back that up, other than your personal opinion about the usefulness of MySpace or 4chan? Like, give me something other than I am a smart independent thinker, others are dum. Perhaps some statistics about rapidly falling literacy rates since the introduction of internet?

RacinReaver Mar 28, 2008 05:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Lehah[/quote
The opinion is the single element of a person which *should* be attacked. Unlike any other trait, they're something you choose to have -- and they can be horribly wrong. My opinion is that fish can breathe oil! My opinion is that housecats should be crushed by pyramids! My opinion is that Star Wars is real! Those are bad, bad opinions -- and they should certainly be called stupid.

What of opinions people have that they don't necessarily wish they had? For example, it's my opinion that all wine tastes like shitty vinegar. I don't want to have that opinion, I'd actually like to be able to enjoy some wine, but unfortunately, I have no choice but to think it's about as appetizing as a stiff glass of apple cider vinegar that's been soaking in my sneakers for a week.

Misogynyst Gynecologist Mar 28, 2008 06:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Bigblah (Post 588628)
No, I'm talking about this whole spiel about "armchair critics". You can basically go into every argument and apply a similar line of reasoning -- and spin it in whatever possible way to give it validity -- but it doesn't contribute a damned thing to the discussion, which means it's irrelevant and disruptive.

I'd agree with that - if people were still posting about the original topic.

(I'll gladly make this my last post in this thread if you really do think that this is disruptive.)

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588679)
Haha, what? What's a 'flag of opinion'? How do you 'plant' it? Does it entail making a post on an internet message board?

Oh dear. I'm sorry if euphemism confuses you. I'll be sure to avoid them while talking to you in the future.

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588679)
And what's a 'stupidity quotient'? How do you measure that?

If I was snarky, it would be 1 LeHah = 50,000,000,000 Aardarks but hey, thats just me and I'm trying to take this seriously.

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588679)
Stopping discussion on the internet would most certainly increase overall intelligence is a pretty bold statement to make, do you perhaps have something to back that up, other than your personal opinion

I wrote something very long and uninteresting here, then deleted it for this lovely quote from Ray Bradbury - "We are multitudinous lemmings driven by wireless voices to hurl ourselves into the Internet seas where tides of mediocrity surge, pretending at wit and will but signifying nothing."

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Originally Posted by Aardark (Post 588679)
about the usefulness of MySpace or 4chan?

And I'm the bold one? The basic that either of them are useful at all is awful, considering that they're both based on people being willfully ignorant. The "shorthand" writing, the memes, the surveys... you're attempting to glob intelligence to something that has nothing like that at all.

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Like, give me something other than I am a smart independent thinker, others are dum.

Prove your intellect like Blah has in the past and I can respond to this with a straight face.

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What of opinions people have that they don't necessarily wish they had?

I think the very idea that someone can have an opinion "forced on them" in that sense is a sign of serious ignorance. I don't particularly care for white wine - but I can see why some people would.

Aardark Mar 28, 2008 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by LeHah (Post 588705)
Oh dear. I'm sorry if euphemism confuses you. I'll be sure to avoid them while talking to you in the future.

Do you... even know what an euphemism is? Regardless, you didn't answer my question. How exactly do you plant a flag of opinion and how is it different from simply having an opinion?

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If I was snarky, it would be 1 LeHah = 50,000,000,000 Aardarks but hey, thats just me and I'm trying to take this seriously.
Another personal attack and avoidance of the question? Why, I never.

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I wrote something very long and uninteresting here, then deleted it for this lovely quote from Ray Bradbury - "We are multitudinous lemmings driven by wireless voices to hurl ourselves into the Internet seas where tides of mediocrity surge, pretending at wit and will but signifying nothing."
You were the one who just said that people ought to think for themselves. So why don't you use your own words instead of throwing out some vague quote by another person? Just because a writer said it doesn't make it an axiom.

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And I'm the bold one? The basic that either of them are useful at all is awful, considering that they're both based on people being willfully ignorant. The "shorthand" writing, the memes, the surveys... you're attempting to glob intelligence to something that has nothing like that at all.
I didn't say they are useful, but that's not the point. What you're saying is akin to declaring that books should be banned because Mein Kampf was a bad one.

Smelnick Mar 28, 2008 08:19 AM

I signed up for awordaday by email from urban dictionary. Today's word seem to pertain to this thread quite well.

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1. slacktivism
The act of participating in obviously pointless activities as an expedient alternative to actually expending effort to fix a problem.
Signing an email petition to stop rampant crime is slacktivism. Want to really make your community safer? Get off your ass and start a neighborhood watch!

2. slacktivism
The search for the ultimate feel-good that derives from having come to society's rescue without having had to actually gets one's hands dirty or open one's wallet.
It's slacktivism that prompts us to want a join a boycott of designated gas companies or eschew buying gasoline on a particular day rather than reduce our personal consumption of fossil fuels by driving less.

Walmart isn't going to notice if 100 people stop shopping at their store. They won't be like 'oh geez, we should have let that women keep that money'. It's just not going to happen, and mindlessly blurting out sentiments to that effect aren't going to do anything either. Unless you are that family, or you are an official of Walmart, I don't see any reason to care all too much. Yah, fine. Express your opinion that you think it sucks, but what is all this 'oh i'm not shoping there anymore' nonsense. We all know you'll still shop there. Why bother telling the internet? Aardvark, I think what Lehah's trying to say(besides just trolling), is 'Why the fuck do people care so much about something that has nothing to do with them?'

Aardark Mar 28, 2008 09:12 AM

I know what LeHah is saying, I just don't entirely agree with him. He seems to think that it's a binary thing: either you absolutely don't give a shit, or you go out and sign up for the fucking Peace Corps, and everything in-between is a waste of time.

Now, it is a waste of time in the sense that we're certainly not helping the woman by posting in this thread (Bigblah mentioned that bringing attention to the case might cause some people to donate, but that's kind of vague, and unless you're the one doing the donating, it's in fact just 'slacktivism'), but is it a waste of time in a broader sense? The woman doesn't benefit, but the people who discuss this case might. I believe in dialectic reasoning, i.e. that 'the truth is born in disputes'. People aren't born with beliefs implanted in their brain. No one is going to just wake up one day and decide to join the Peace Corps or donate money to a mentally disabled woman. However, the very fact that this case is being discussed and its morality and legality argued or defended is bringing the people closer to truth.

Of course, all that is irrelevant if one thinks that discussions don't matter and the truth is just something that you come up with in your own head (by 'thinking for yourself'). In that case, arguing about anything on the internet is indeed pretty pointless. I personally think believing something like that is not a mark of strong character, but rather of mental laziness and close-mindedness. The internet can be a pretty scary place if you approach it that way. Just imagine, you post something on the internet, and it's open to criticism for literally millions of people, who all have the potential to make you question your beliefs. Of course it's always easier to dismiss all those millions as brainless lemmings (as per the quote of Mr. Bradbury) in fell swoop, and keep believing that your personal truth is the ultimately correct one.

RacinReaver Mar 28, 2008 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Lehah
I think the very idea that someone can have an opinion "forced on them" in that sense is a sign of serious ignorance. I don't particularly care for white wine - but I can see why some people would.

Did you choose to not care for white wine, or does that opinion stem from some innate feeling within you?

FatsDomino Mar 28, 2008 05:00 PM

We really need a Freud emoticon.

Bradylama Mar 28, 2008 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by AcerBandit (Post 588841)
We really need a Freud emoticon.

Freud emoticon must be snorting coke, this is essential.

Hillary Clinton Mar 28, 2008 11:57 PM

As president, I will ensure that this poor woman benefits from my American Health Choices Plan. I will also provide tax credits to help Wal-Mart pay for health care.

Little Shithead Mar 29, 2008 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Hillary Clinton (Post 588935)
As president, I will ensure that this poor woman benefits from my American Health Choices Plan. I will also provide tax credits to help Wal-Mart pay for health care.

I don't know if I like this gimmick account.

The Wise Vivi Mar 29, 2008 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Pirate (Post 588641)
Always... always read the fine print.

Good point.

I also feel Wal-Mart is being a bit of a dick, but on the other hand, they did write it in the small print. Ignorance is not bliss in a court of law.

No. Hard Pass. Mar 29, 2008 01:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Little Shithead (Post 588941)
I don't know if I like this gimmick account.

Well it's not very funny.

Hillary Clinton Mar 29, 2008 02:23 AM

I assure you that I am a very humorous person. During my mission to Bosnia I was accompanied by the famous comedian Sinbad, and received his personal tutelage while dodging sniper bullets.

Sarag Mar 29, 2008 04:18 PM

Give her more than two posts to see if she'll be any good. Like, this second post made me chortle a little.

Leknaat Mar 30, 2008 05:26 AM

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Originally Posted by The Wise Vivi (Post 588967)
Good point.

I also feel Wal-Mart is being a bit of a dick, but on the other hand, they did write it in the small print. Ignorance is not bliss in a court of law.

There is something that bothers me. What IS the small print, anyway? Does it say, "In the event damages are collected, Wal-Mart will sue for the return of monies paid?" Or does it say, "In the event damages are collected, Wal-Mart retains the right to sue for monies paid?"

The first phrasing warns the person that it will happen, and the second that it might. With the second phrasing, Wal-Mart would still be upholding the contract even if they didn't sue.

I wish I had a copy of the contract....

Crash "Long-Winded Wrong Answer" Landon Apr 3, 2008 09:16 AM

UPDATE: Wal-Mart, apparently caving to pressures from outraged consumers, has reversed its decision in the Shank's case - and is modifying its policy to prevent both similar cases and future abuses.

Wal-Mart: Brain-damaged former employee can keep money - CNN.com

Perhaps there is such thing as bad publicity after all.

Rotorblade Apr 3, 2008 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by David Brothers
Yeah, man, I'm sorry to tell you this, but sometimes people people actually don't know about things, and seeing someone else care about things makes them, in turn, care about them. It's this thing called "sympathy" or "responsibility" or "empathy" or "being a grown ass motherfucking man" instead of being a crybaby whiny bitch who is so self-centered that he's going to assume that just because he doesn't care about shit, no one else in the entire world cares.

Yeah, LeHah, "raising awareness."


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