There's no need to get her a zoo gift: it doesn't seem personal. A gift that relates to your visit to the zoo without her is going to end up in a corner of her room. Just do something with her.

I'm surprised at the post count turnout for this thread.

Keep it coming gaming. My advice from earlier remains the same. At some point, you should ask her directly and be upfront.

:tpg: most people don't know how to dance in a club, they just wiggle to the music cuz it's so crammed after a whlie >__>"

Cookie only reads thread titles !

lol jks.

But yeah, just chill on the beach and chat. Bring a jacket incase it get's cold, so you can lend it to her.

Do not buy her a gift yet. You will look needy and pathetic if you do.

Hopefully he sees that.

I'm agreeing with Alice twice in one day. The apocalypse is near.

An unexpected person came with us yesterday.
Her little girl cousin that I carried to the parking space a few days ago at the carnival. She had been crying or something, so that's why she came with us.
I don't know if it's true or just because she's not feeling safe with me.

I think I'm giving up on her. I do like her and all that, but something tells me that this is not going to work out. It's also taking too much time, something I don't have.
She promised that I would see her again another time, but I don't think that will happen.
I'm not going to e-mail her and remind her because I don't want to sound needy. I believe that if she really wants to see me again, she'll make contact.

Oof, feel better bro. =(
Girls make no sense anyways

Why don't you have time? Do you have a terminal illness or something?

Because I'm only here on vacation... and I'm leaving soon... july 28

So basically this wouldn't be a relationship anyway, then, if you don't live near her.

Oh well. This thread was fun while it lasted. I wish all Angst threads were this enjoyable with updates and such.

btw: Hi Alice!

But I'm going to move here soon...
I can wait for her, but I'm not sure if she can...

Does she know you're moving? But yeah...bringing a little cousin doesn't make her not feel safe around you...i think you mean like the cousin might have been there incase you were planning anything awkward. Heck if you aren't feeling it, then don't, if anything, try to pick it up when you move in.

I pulled the same trick with my ex-cuddle buddy. He has this fascination that I want to spend 24/7 with someone who just wants to cuddle with me and sleep with men. He's using me as an escape from his parents, and spending more than 2 hours with him starts to get tiring, so in order for him to bring me home within 2 hours, I made my little brother come with me. She may be telling the truth, but from what you've explained about her, I'm willing to bet she's using her as a distraction or barrier.

Moving to a new place could give you a better opportunity at more women. I don't know about the whole "she'll make contact" if she wants to see you since some women believe that the men should make contact first, but from what has been explained, I think you're better off not worrying about her. Good luck at your new place.

The surest way to figure her out is to just spill the beans. Tell her that you enjoy her company, and ask if she feels the same way. If she fumbles, chances are your fears are right. And the part about you moving, tell her that too, and regardless of how she responds to your question (about liking you) end with a positive note about how you'd like to meet up with her again and how maybe another day you'll like to spend more time with her and her cousins.

Its what I've been saying all along... ;_;

Kudos to that.

Wow, a legitimately useful post. Cool. (Can see this being helpful both ways...)

Yes, it is harsh and I should know better, but you live you hopefully learn right? Also, the guy is very thick in the head and doesn't understand the meaning of curfew.

More like the guy's very thick in the head, period.

We're still going to the theatres with her cousins on thursday.

That sounds good. What movie?

"You, me and Dupree", I think... It's still undecided.
Anyways, last night she asked if I wanted to go out with her before the cinema on thursday (which is later today).

I don't know where to go yet, have to mail her later...