| Sarag |
Dec 20, 2006 06:05 PM |
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Originally Posted by Plainsman
PB and Spanglish, I think you're making a wise decision, and I've said the same thing to guys as well (not just girls). The reasons for having sex outside of marriage are superficial and transient compared to the damage that it can cause. When I was having sex as a youngin', even when I wanted to "please" whoever I was with, it was a selfish act that I wish I had had the self-control to refrain from.
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I don't think it's fair to basically pressure people into having sex if they don't want to. Not just saying stuff like "if you loved me you'd do it" but even stuff like "everyone's doing it" and "those horror stories are never true".
Do you think it's fair to basically pressure people into feeling guilty for having sex? I only ask because obviously you can't pressure people into not having sex; you didn't even have the mental strength to do it to yourself.
All I'm asking is, I guess, is where do you get off? |
