Tanning seems the biggest waste out of those. I mean come on, just do things outside if you want a tan. Nails/makeup, meh, if she wants to use it that's fine, if not that's fine. New clothes: not a waste of money unless you buy something every 5 seconds to keep up with the latest trends.

That's what I mean. The girls who buy clothes every so many weeks to get the new in boots, trendy top, etc.

I agree. I am not usually very impressed with fake n bake, and outside tanning (just laying in the sun in a bikini) can be pretty harmful as well. Makeup and nails doesn't affect me for the most part, and new clothes isn't a problem as long as a fortune isn't spent every week.

I have a question for you men...

If you see a really pretty girl, are you intimidated by their looks?

If you see a girl all dressed in designer clothes, are you intimdated by their status?

No and no. A pretty girl is still just a girl. A girl in designer clothes just has money. I don't see the point in being threatened by either.

apparently... guys think I'm intimdating....

but would you approach a pretty girl in designer clothes?

Flara, from your picture, I'd agree that you're a pretty girl. But hardly unapproachable. I've yet to meet the girl who's too pretty, or too well dressed for me to talk to. It's just talking. And if I never ask a gorgeous, well dressed girl to join me for a drink, I'll never wind up dating a gorgeous, well-dressed girl, now will I? Guys who are intimidated by a girl's looks are too shallow for their own good.

That's why the best way to be is to have no sense of fashion and not even be able to identify designed clothes. Then there's no way you'll be intimidated by them!

Either that or they themselves are pig-ugly. I can imagine that for munters, approaching someone good looking could be intimidating as you know that right off the bat they're unlikely to give you the time of day. Any of the resident ugly brigade care to confirm/deny this?

Thanks~ :) so I guess it's not my problem that I'm good looking lol

no sense of fashion scares me.............

Though, Flara, to be fair... you're an asian in America. You immediately get the Team Asian guys running to you on principle. I have seen some absolute munters get good looking cats because they're asian. It's ridiculous.

I live in Canada btw
maybe it's because i go to school with 500 chicks.... (I major in Fashion Design)

That's the beauty of it; now the shoe's on the other foot, and you're too afraid to talk to me.

Edit: America, Canada, whatever. The point is you're an Asian on another continent where like 60% of guys are rice chasers. In retrospect, 60% might be conservative. In any case, it's a lot.

Fashion Design in Canada? You're not in Toronto, are you?

I bet she is, and I bet she goes to York, haha. There's not much else.

There's a fashion design school there, too. I can't remember the name of it, but a friend of mine graduated there a year ago.

Oh there's that Academy of Design or something, I had a friend who went there for a bit.

You're stating the question in a biased manner that steers the person towards a specific answer that you want to hear.

And you are pointing out the obvious.

york shmork... nopes
fashion design schools?
there's many in toronto and i do go to one of them hehe
oop i think im off topic.....

I''m drawn to a girl's personality first, actually. I like someone who is assertive, friendly, and optimistic. Their sense of style, eye contact, and body language are things I look for, too.

Physically, I do like eyes, but I like smiles better. I generally prefer slightly older girls, because I've been told that I am very mature for my age.

(I'm 19 by the way).

*porno beat*
Deni putting on his moves.

I find girls with better fashion sense more approachable. At least you have a good conversation starter along the lines of "I like your pants, shirt, etc."

So you'd date a girl who was ugly and a complete cunt because she's a talented writer? Yama, you're a fucking joke lately. It's like you've decided that you have to try and be this esoteric entity, reigning high taste down across the boards. What, did you finally get around to Philosophy 100 this semester? Seriously, get a grip and chill the fuck out. We get it. You want to be deep. That's fine, but be a tad realistic.

Telephone ice cream was a good joke though.