Probably because she doesn't want her entire torso to be consumed by pubic hair by the time she turns 40.

You can't judge anyone's personality within 2 seconds, so what kind of dipshit guy would think he could see a girl from across a room and know that she's worth asking out JUST BECAUSE SHE'S HOT. That's my whole point. It's ridiculous. Don't ask for a girl's number unless you've at least had a conversation with her.

Yeah, Alice, you're making yourself out to be quite a prude. =/
Courting a specific audience, then bitching about it is what I've gathered. If you don't want a guy to hit on you, then why bother even looking presentable when you go out? Why even keep up appearances if you dislike people's responses?

What the hell are you so afraid of?
They're not actually judging in most cases, but instead are inclined to take a chance in meeting you and or asking you out. Remove the stick from your vagina please.

Devo, you seem to have missed the part where I said that I DEFINITELY want my man to think I'm beautiful. I just don't want that to be the deciding factor. Every single time a guy has just walked right up to me without knowing the first thing about me and asked me out, my creep alarm has gone off.

HOWEVER, if I know a guy is interested in me because of me - not because he think's I'm bangable, then of course I want him to think I'm beautiful.

I like to look pretty, but NOT so that creepy guys will just prance up to me and ask me for my phone number.

Can't find a man that is of your liking? Just go lesbian already. I'm sure there are a bunch of women who feel the same way as you and chose the same path.

Good grief.

No. How dare he ASK ME OUT based solely on my looks.

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P.S. I'm married - I'm just saying, is all.

Physical attraction is one important aspect of a relationship between a man and a woman.

Are you even that attractive? lol
And why must every thread you post in turn into some kind of holier than thou feminist attack on earth?

hahaha
 

There.

Well, like I said - I have no problem with a guy talking to me IN ORDER TO GET TO KNOW ME BETTER because of my looks. I just never liked it when a guy was so consumed with that, that he asked me out before even trying to talk to me to see if we even clicked.

I approach ugly people because I know they have no self esteem. Am I biased yet?

Actually, no. But not being drop-dead gorgeous doesn't stop certain guys from being completely focused on my looks. Everyone has a "type," I guess.

Asking for a phone number is the same thing as asking someone out? When the fuck did this happen?

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Ah, now I understand.

Did I mention that I enjoy the company of fat hairy men?
Seriously don't judge the way people try to court others. If you don't like it, deal with it yourself, stop bitching about it on the internet. :juggler:

Hey, I didn't create the thread. I was just answering the question.

Smoodle, what do you understand? I didn't say I was hideous, just that I'm not the most beautiful creature to ever walk planet Earth. I've been hit on enough by creepy guys, trust me. =/

I was responding to Benjamin.

It's my understanding that lots of girls do this.. But I'm trying to figure out the logic behind this.

My point is that it's veeery easy to label a dude as a testerone-filled, pussymongering, sexually driven manwhore. Even though it's a safe assumption to make, it isn't exactly fair for those who may approach a girl with genuine intentions.

Would it make more sense to say this-

"Hey. Ya know, you seem like a very nice girl and it'd be awesome if I got your number. Maybe we could chat for a little, or grab a bite to eat."

OR

"Hey. I saw you from around the way and I just couldn't resist coming up to your and asking for your hand in marraige. From what I can tell, you are everything I want in a woman and I'd like to start a family with you, have 7 kids, and be buried in matching plots when we grow old together and die."

Apparently, in both cases you're labeled a creep.

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I like Alice's personality. May I have your phone number?