There is no solution to your problem, it seems.

Best bet is to cut your wrists. Make sure you do it downward from your wrist, not across like a girl would.

~

Actually, how old are you?

Now, it's getting quite severe. I think I'm getting panic attacks when I'm around people resulting in antisocial behavior. It happens periodically and sometimes, I am the complete opposite - very social and outgoing. But now, I just feel down and out of it. Like... I'm afraid that I'll make a mistake.

I even walked out of my good (girl) friend's party without a clear explanation - I had to go to another party... which is true but it's my grandfather's. And I hope she didn't get the wrong idea - like her party sucked. I'll have to explain... sigh.

Heh, it's pretty pointless on the internet now. I'll ask my doctor. =S

PS. I'm 17.

Panic attacks?

Care to explain?

Just relax, dude.

See a psychaitrist and get some Zoloft, man. The bouncing egg will do wonders.

I agree with the others that it is a fear of rejection AND a fear of commitment. You like the chase, I think. =)

I agree. There are so many good explainations of the possible problem you are having with women. I have a similar problem where if a person becomes too clingy and acts like they don't have a life unless I'm around, then I get nervous that they will take away my freedom to make other friends and I end up getting mad whenever I see them. That's one of the problems I have with the person that I am currently residing with. Ironically, I have a problem with big crowds sometimes if I know that these are people I will see over and over again who could embarrass me.

I don't know if you have a fear of rejection, but it could be a fear of commitment/loss of freedom. Or maybe you just like the rush of the chase and when that chase ends you get bored and end up avoiding them b/c of that lack of rush. It sounds like you already know what is wrong, but you just need to find a way to change it (if you want to change it). One thing you might need to remedy the problem is to meet a girl that leads you on enough to make the chase interesting and leave you always on the edge of catching her while being available enough for you not to see it as a lost cause.

However, finding someone like that could be difficult, so you can either talk to a professional in figuring out what really needs to be done, or decide for yourself whether or not you want to change part of your personality or keep things the way they are.

I back that too (^).

I also think it is because you fear a relationship. If you wanted one, you would've asked her.
It sounds like you like these girls and they like you back. You really want to just be friends, but something is pulling you to do more.

Due to lack of experiance, social problems, or fear, you never push the relationship further.

Eventually the girl and you become flirting friends and it fades away from there.
My suggestion (which is menial because I lack experiance too!): decide how much you like this girl and how much it interests you enough to keep going further. If your curiosity on women stop and you want to play Halo instead, than you need to get out more.

I think that eventually, it won't matter like all other things in High School. HS is just to get out there and have fun. If you don't have alot of fun at parties because of lack of interest, then don't obligate your attendence. In the long run, most men just seem to develop a since of curiosity for women.

If you are undecided, then make friends with her and stop ignoring her. If you start to like her more in all ways, then push the relationship. If it falls back, you'll at least have a good friend :)

Joseph

I may be a bit late here, but yes Alice, that is damn funny when it's brought to one's attention on it's own like that.:tpg: It's not too odd though, I remember when I was in drama in high school, the curtains on our stage were always a prime place to get in and out of for whatever reason. It was like walking into a huge closet full of tons upon tons of furry and fluffy coats.


Anyway, I think you should just get yourself to talk to the girls you like guy. I can see how it'd be tough of scary but you'll probebly be glad when you do it. As Sass said, if you don't it'll seem like you're ignoring them on purpose and they'll get the wrong idea. It's probebly just nervousness taking you over.

Wow. Another girl likes me. And we hung around after school today. I go home. Block her because she was going to be a huge distraction (And I'm an asshole/dumbass). Finds out. And is mad pissed (obviously).

And I don't know if I like her. I'm very confused right now. My friend also likes her and I already betrayed him before. Except, this time it's quite..... horrendous ;_; I told him that nothing is between me and her. But she is quite down about her last relationship. I don't want to fake it and go out with her. Is that selfish of me? I want to figure if she is the one... (sounds kinda lame).

I don't think I can take it anymore. >.< I'm going to go gay after this =S