I've pretty much given up on this one girl now though, with her slight "rejection" that pretty much told me what she thought. I dunno if it's just because she hasn't thought about having a relationship before that she rejected me, but I just don't think it can become anything any longer. Also, it seems she's gotten interested in someone else in the past few weeks so I'm screwed no matter how I see it.

Ah well, I'm moving on, I'm considering a relationship with another girl right now, although in this case I already know she is interested in me; I just don't know myself if I could handle being with her (as I really don't know that very much how she is like a person). She's not that unattractive really, it's all about personal chemistry in this case as she does seem to be a bit different. I'll be giving it a try though.

Don't forget that the majority of woman have NO clue what they want. Maybe I'm sounding misogynistic, but it's the complete truth. If you are too much of a dick, they'll hate you. If you are too nice of a guy, you get tossed in the "friend zone" bin. Of course you cannot be insecure, even though they are insecure themselves...which makes them hypocrites also. Perhaps somebody could dispute my findings or shed some light on the issue...