A-B-O-R-T!

You are counting your chickens before your eggs are even produced.

You are trying to use myspace for a girl who you didn't know that well, are trying to befriend because you want to date her, not because you want to be friends with her...and you're fucking using MYSPACE!

If you two weren't super good friends back in the day, she might chat with you on myspace to say hi but you are basically trying to break a rock with a glass hammer. Using myspace to get a "date" isn't the greatest choice BECAUSE, unless you actually hung out with her for real, you will NOT get a feel for the person.

If its rare that you'll be able to strike up a convo, and its rare you'll see her again...you don't have much of a chance. The most you could get is a phone number.

Hello Restraining order

Here you sound like a very shallow bastard. A agree that physical attraction is a must in all relationships but seriously...

I wish you luck but if you said its rare that you see her and that you were never friends with her to begin with...then it'll be rare if you can actually get together with her.

I would say just move on/move out of the city. Honestly, girls sometimes are like guys, they're a dime a dozen you just have to get out there and look.


But seriously...stay away from Myspace to get a date unless you know the girl personally

I advise moving on. MySpace is not the way to make/further good relationships. Seriously, if I were her, I'd be a bit confused that this guy I saw four years ago suddenly added me as a friend.

Moreso, thoughts ocme to mind. You barely know her, her interests, her goals, etc. How are you sure this will coincide with your own? You don't need to share the same interests in everything, but a relationship with no common interests is looking for diaster, frustration, boredom and general unhappiness.

Moreso, ask yourself this question (since you mentioned both looks and wanting to settle down)...what will it be like in thirty to forty years when she has aged? What will you have then that will make you (and presumably her) happy?

Sorry for the lack of updates fellas. Been kinda busy lately.

Anyway, the update is I gave up, and then shortly after I gave up I found out she had a boyfriend so it wouldn't have worked anyway.

I was really attracted to her, and only used myspace for monitoring, but I realized it just wasn't going to happen. I found out I know someone she knows and talked to them about her and she very much isn't my type anyway.

So that is the end of that. I've moved on for a while now so she's long gone in the rearview mirror.