Alright thanks for the advice.

I've msged him about doing some stuff together and I guess all there is to do is to wait.

I'll put the statistic out there that the number of new cases of occurances of HIV in teenage gay male to male sexual relationships have been STEEPLY on the rise. Also, the number of suicides within the age range of early teens to mid 20's have been noted that out of those suicides, 60-70% of them were due to depression. Most of those depression-based suicides, the victims were sexually active and in/were in sexually-involved relationships.

I'm not trying to shake fingers at the fact that you're a young, teenage, gay guy, but just showing some concern for your behalf that the statistic is there.

My best advise for you is, it's ok to be gay. It's ok to be sexually curious. It's ok to be experimental. But I think at your age, it's more important to learn how to build healthier relationships based on connections other than sex. I also think it's important to learn to take care of yourself, and also to actually care for your well-being. Growing up to be an adult with responsibility and freedom has a lot to do with this.

Ignore Shorty. Wear a condom, fuck all you want.

fixed.

See, I don't think you can blame sex for emotional instability. Dude wants a relationship, he should form an emotionally healthy relationship. Dude just wants to stick his dick in somebody? Well, he should be able to do that too.

Thanks for the concern, but I don't really think this will develop anywhere that far anyways (although I hope it does). Besides the point, we both are virgins and we both aren't depressed.


.... and I'm not too into the relationship deal anyways; as of now, commitment is the last thing on my mind.

btw it's amusing to see the conflict of ideas here; just a thought :)

Eh, Deni and I scratch each other in the throat occasionally.

He's entitled to his own opinion, as much as you or I are. So I normally leave him alone until he starts blowing cigarette smoke down my throat. ;-P

Just wanted you to be aware of the statistic; how much you flirt w/ this guy is totally up to you and how you want to go about it and I don't see any harm in it. I just hope you're smart enough to be cautious with your first time when you actually do decide to be causually sexually active. Other than that, yeah, go wild. Go experiment, flirt, get a heartbreak, live and learn, crash and burn.

P.S. Why are a lot of hot/cute guys gay? I'm very curious. I go to the mall and see very attractive looking young males and 9 times out of 10, they are gay. Some more so than others. Some extermely girly, some quite flambouyantly gay, and some are just queeny. But they are all cute. Why is that?

We've fought before? When? Also, I don't smoke, damnit!

Safety is number 1, but getting to the point where that's an issue is the problem.

I guess gay guys tend to care more of themselves better I'm guessing.

If you're looking for gay-looking straight guys, I'm pretty sure the new 'race' is the metrosexual. It's like two in one!

1) How do you know they are gay? The ones who look flamboyant, or "queeny" just might suprise you be being straight, and the ones who "look straight" might be gay.

If you're putting something like this out there, I'm curious as to how you're gathering your data. Please note that this is not an attempt at political correctness.

2) The ugly ones could be gay too. Think about it.

3) "Hot/cute" is a subjective measure. Maybe you're attracted to gay men. Which would... probably be a little self-defeating. :tpg:

This was also my first reaction. You (r[aV]el) need to leave him alone for a bit. If he doesn't contact you, then he's probably not interested. If you prefer not to do that, then I really would agree with the people who said just to make the offer openly. If he's interested in you sexually, he won't turn down the offer of no-strings sex. It's just that simple.

That's true, I've met some queens that love girls. I don't know if I trust them 100% with the truth, but if they say it I'll take it.

If you're both virgins, the chances of getting bad aids off this geezer are somewhat lessened...

Sounds to me though like you're not going to get anywhere with this guy. If he's brushing you off with terse emails before you let him fuck you, I wouldn't expect much in the way of conversation afterwards. If you just want a shag, high schools are generally pretty full of kids with the same idea. You'd be much better off jogging this guy on and finding yourself a slut with the same ideas you have.

I think Shin may have just propositioned you. In fact, I'm sure of it.

Then there are some who make it incredibly obvious. Down to thier walk and type of speech @_@.

I won't disagree with you. I've certainly noticed the behaviour that you're referring to in some young, gay men. I've also known some extremely camp straight men. So...

Well, I see what you mean.

I guess I'm going to just leave it be for a month and see what comes of it; then I'll just ask straight forward before he goes to college.