Listen up, after meeting you I can acertain that you are an alright looking guy and easy to chat with. Just stop thinking asking a girl out for coffee is such a huge deal because it really isn't. Stop wondering if each girl is your potential future girlfriend and just focus on getting to know them. If you meet one and there is a spark, it might develop otherwise it might not. Just don't try to force things.

Talking too much is not always a bad thing. If you can spark up a conversation with a girl and keep it rolling without struggling to keep it going then you're already scoring points because that shows you have a functioning brain.

It's good to talk about yourself, it's bad to over talk about yourself. When talking to a girl you want to get to know better it's always good to get to know them. So ask questions about them so you get to know them. If they like the feel they get from the conversation they will eventually want to get to know you and that is when they would ask questions about you. Where are you from, how old you are, what you do for a living, going to school, etc etc. It's just how you project yourself. Think of yourself as a sales person, you've got to sell yourself to the girl to want to talk more with you, or even go out with you. Don't lie though because that can come back to bite you in the rear!

Yeah, that is a really good point to make. Forcing issues only scares people away. Over the past while, I have been trying to be more relaxed and just having a great time. All things come with time, correct? Its been a bit better for me not worrying about things I shouldn't be worrying about in the first place. School and work comes first right? Its not that I am not available to women or anything, its just I need to just be cool and confident with myself. Right?

You could always starts smoking. I hear that makes you 30% cooler.... :P

Just carry a pack and a lighter with you so incase a girl needs a light or a smoke you can provide her with one. Keeps you somewhat healthy...

I agree with that. A lot of women are far more interested in a guy who has a LIFE than one whose life is centered around the woman. Wouldn't it freak you out if someone's life was centered around you? Yeah. Creepy.


And, as for my documentary... it shall be done. Every girl I've hooked up with in the past few months, I will do all in my power to take a picture of them kissing me. However, I don't think I can agree to leaving GFF forever if you're not satisfied. I love being hated way too much. While I'm not so worried about people thinking the girls are fat, I am a little worried about the "ugly" part, because I've had ugly girls look at hot chicks and go "she's so ugly" ... and I've had hot chicks look at girls i thought were ugly and say "she's cute." Plus, how can you even tell what a girl looks like when her face is mashed up against mine? Oh well. Look for the first one in my chocojournal sometime in the next... oh... twenty MINUTES.

I know how you feel except I believe my story is abit more sad but thats neither here nor there. I believe that there is something more behind it. I can't quite put my finger on it but I feel like there is. I mean there is obviously no reason why you should be single as "some" girls said so yet the ones you asked turned you down. Why is this? Like i said there is something more to it. It is easy to blame yourself but is it really you that is to blame?