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Jan 19, 2007 - 12:17 AM |
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Dating advice requested. [mushymushy girly] |
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Yeah, I could start a thread or read through a bunch of stuff in TQP, but I prefer to write it specifically about my situation and not expose people to endless rambling in a first post.
Anways, some of you know that I am interested in a guy at my school. Since my interest was building up through last semester, I didn't really know how much I liked him until about the end of the semester, so after the dinner party where I talked to him I had a month to stew and generally be frustrated . You can skim and skip to the question in the spoiler tags at the bottom, if you prefer.
Now that school has [finally!] started, I talked to him. A little. I hadn't seen him all day, but then when I went in the evening to my chamber music meeting, he was there! Really, nobody I talked to thought he was doing it, because this is his last semester and he's going to be preparing for a recital and auditions. But there he was, at the opening to the room, because there wasn't enough room for everybody to fit and I was late. So I stood next to him, and he asked me how my break was and all that jazz, but then we had to break off and go find chamber groups; I already indebted myself to a pianist and a violinist, so I couldn't offer to be in his group.
My roommate is one of many mutual friends, and she has decided she will help me since I'm so incapable of sending basic signals. I guess I'm just too subtle for guys, because most girls realize that I like him. My roomie was originally just going to talk to him, asking "Are you interested in anybody?" and "You know, I have a friend who is interested in you." He would tell her, because he's discussed his past relationship issues and stuff with her. The thing is, his ex-girlfriend is now single since a couple weeks ago, and apparently has been calling him every day now. She's a bit of a bitch when she wants to be, so I'm hoping that he won't go back to her or something incredibly ridiculous like that. Anyhow, my roommate has come up with an idea to ask him out to coffee -- with me in tow as well -- and then she'll up and leave after a while and leave us two to talk. I would be okay with that, but I wonder if that will just make us seem like friends? Because I know that I've been in that situation with male friends before, and it certainly wasn't sending any signals. She also suggested I send him a note or something for V-day in February (I kind of shy away from that idea). LORD I feel like a freshman in high school.
Also, in the course of writing this, I realized that I have very little in the way of 'Love/romantic' songs. Everything is religious, philosophical, ballad or angry . I need some sappy Mexican love songs...
| Currently Playing: Royal Crown Revue - "Trapped (in the web of love)" |
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